{"id":1920,"date":"2017-01-23T19:24:27","date_gmt":"2017-01-24T03:24:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/erikdolson.com\/?p=1920"},"modified":"2018-05-01T10:54:05","modified_gmt":"2018-05-01T17:54:05","slug":"fear-2-0","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erikdolson.com\/?p=1920","title":{"rendered":"Fear 2.0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><em>By Jane Miller (from ontillmorning.us)<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>By Jane Miller<\/em><\/p>\n<p>What if I can\u2019t do it?<\/p>\n<p>Would it be better to break up now and call it a good try rather than stay, fail, and watch my relationship with Erik splinter into a million heart-broken pieces? Pictures of the boat frighten me. The cockpit seats, the coaming, the small space between the edge of the bench seat and the binnacle where I lay until Erik picked me up.<\/p>\n<p>I am petrified of walking up the starboard side of the deck to the bow and not seeing the entire right side of the ocean because my right eye is missing. Of hating it \u2026 the uncertainty, the panic, the inexperience, the fear \u2026 Of seeing the sad disappointment in Erik\u2019s eyes as he looks at me and says, \u201cOh, Janie, we tried.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ontillmorning.us\/fear-2-0\/\">Read more here.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><em>By Jane Miller (from ontillmorning.us)<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>By Jane Miller<\/em><\/p>\n<p>What if I can\u2019t do it?<\/p>\n<p>Would it be better to break up now and call it a good try rather than stay, fail, and watch my relationship with Erik splinter into a million heart-broken pieces? Pictures of the boat frighten me. The cockpit seats, the coaming, the small space between the edge of the bench seat and the binnacle where I lay until Erik picked me up.<\/p>\n<p>I am petrified of walking up the starboard side of the deck to the bow and not seeing the entire right side of  \u2026 <a href=\"https:\/\/erikdolson.com\/?p=1920\">Read more\u2026 <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr; <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1920","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3mcOb-uY","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erikdolson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1920","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erikdolson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erikdolson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erikdolson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erikdolson.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1920"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/erikdolson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1920\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2217,"href":"https:\/\/erikdolson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1920\/revisions\/2217"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erikdolson.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1920"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erikdolson.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1920"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erikdolson.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1920"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}