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Irish talks about fear. She fell, crushed half her face and lost her right eye. Of course she’s afraid of going back on the boat. No job and savings wiped out by divorce, she fears medical bills, as do many in much better shape. She fears for our relationship. After losing her job, the day before she fell, she asked me if I “could still love an unemployed miscreant.” Her question … Continue reading
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Irish’s father died last Saturday. We’ll drive from the mountains to the valley tomorrow, pick up her sons in Eugene, and then head to the Oregon coast where the service will be held the next day. So much for 2017 making up for last year. The girl didn’t have enough on her plate over the last six weeks? Parkinson’s, losing her job over Thanksgiving, four days later the fall that nearly … Continue reading
At the root of our “being,” just below consciousness and mostly hidden from us, pre-spoken emotions and urges guide our behaviors. As individuals we share many if not most of these, though where we fall on any one scale may be different from one to another. You may have one glass of wine and be content, but your brother’s seven are not nearly enough. You may be happy to sit … Continue reading
The previous post, “Fear,” was by Jane Miller. The automated email that went out with that story did not include the byline. Apologies.
by Jane Miller Fear comes like the fog – “on little cat feet.” I had thought I was only afraid of dentists, but now I am faced with stomach-gripping anxiety and heart-skipping panic. I’m afraid … … we’re going up to the boat in less than two weeks. … sometimes I almost remember the fall and the impact that took my right eye and crushed my face. … the medical … Continue reading
At 3:30 in the morning of a day in the first week of January it’s almost dark outside but for reflections of starlight off faceted sparkles of fresh snow that’s been falling since before dinner yesterday. Another year. The to-do list stretches for pages and hasn’t changed much in months which piles guilt upon guilt for my aimlessness, inattention, lack of focus. I’m writing but not publishing, floating but not boating, sitting and … Continue reading
by Jane Miller I didn’t really mean to write about all of this. Traveling over the Santiam Pass on New Year’s Eve, I wrote notes for something vastly different. But that will have to wait. December needs to be revisited first. I have been so afraid and so deeply sad. I lost my eye. I almost died. My face is still a mass of bruises, swelling, and pain. I … Continue reading
Irish had nightmares nearly all night on Christmas Eve. She would cry out or whimper, and I would take her hand or touch her shoulder or leg, someplace where I could reach actual skin. “It’s alright. I’m right here,” She would gulp a lungful of air. “It was awful. People were coming out of the ground to attack me.” “It’s just a nightmare. I’m right here.” She’d fall back asleep … Continue reading